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29 August 2015
Damn I get envious easily. I always seem to think of what other people have that I don't instead of appreciating what I do have. I mean I know I'm lucky.
I'm afraid one day it'll all go away and I'll end up a failure doing something I don't like doing.
I wish I could be a billionaire.
Or a millionaire.
I wish I could just understand everything.
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24 August 2015
We all have to write them for college. Well assuming we all want to go to college.
We all have to write them for college. Well assuming we all want to go to college.
I'm afraid of when I have to do this because I'm not interesting. I have nothing about me that will:
Engage (Reader)
Separate (Applicant)
Describe (Setting)
Build (Theme)
Stands (Alone)
Separate (Applicant)
Describe (Setting)
Build (Theme)
Stands (Alone)
Or, as Mr. Ruskus puts it, ESDBS.
I always wonder how people end up writing amazing personal statements if they haven't experienced something cool. Even if I have a unique experience, that doesn't make it interesting. Sure, not everyone is as lazy as I am, doesn't mean the admissions person is gonna wanna read about that.
I'm just such a regular person. And I mean that in the realist way.
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23 August 2015
My American Lit. teacher definitely thinks I'm a dumbass now. Which is unfortunate because I was really good in Lit. last year, and I'm pretty sure the teacher I had liked me (I TA for him now), and even more unfortunate, the teacher I have now is good friends with my last year teacher. Literally in the first week of school, I already forgot to do some random Benjamin Franklin reading, and the next day there was a reading quiz. I just laughed. That moment when you finish the quiz first, not because you knew your shit real well, but because you wrote bullshit. AND THEN, he does the cold call note-card-with-names thing and asks me a question about our discussion. I was honestly only half listening and trying to get the offline dinosaur game to work on our school Chromebooks (the owner disabled it, probably to stop people like me), so I just took a random stab at the answer; obviously I got it wrong, and it was just awkward because that was about the 5th time I answered his question wrong/made it clear I wasn't paying attention. Seriously not on the ball at all.
My AP Comp Sci teacher probably thinks I don't know shit. During class the other day I had my phone in my pocket, but when I sit, the power button and volume buttons get hit randomly, so I accidentally booted the phone into safe mode. In order to avoid that, I just took it out of my pocket and put it on the table face down. In the middle of class, he walks over and he's like I don't want to see this out during class (not in a mean way). I just said sorry and dropped it in my backpack. After class, I'm always the slowest person to leave the room because I am really slow at packing up. As I'm packing up and everyone is gone, he asks me how I'm doing. I say I'm fine. He then asks me if I'm having any trouble. I say no. He looks at me with this unconvinced face and's all like, "are you sure?" I say yes. He says okay in, again, an unconvinced voice. We exchange the usual words of goodbye, and I leave. I guess it could just be regular teacher-making-sure-you-aren't-failing. On the other hand, he could think I'm a delinquent.
My American Lit. teacher definitely thinks I'm a dumbass now. Which is unfortunate because I was really good in Lit. last year, and I'm pretty sure the teacher I had liked me (I TA for him now), and even more unfortunate, the teacher I have now is good friends with my last year teacher. Literally in the first week of school, I already forgot to do some random Benjamin Franklin reading, and the next day there was a reading quiz. I just laughed. That moment when you finish the quiz first, not because you knew your shit real well, but because you wrote bullshit. AND THEN, he does the cold call note-card-with-names thing and asks me a question about our discussion. I was honestly only half listening and trying to get the offline dinosaur game to work on our school Chromebooks (the owner disabled it, probably to stop people like me), so I just took a random stab at the answer; obviously I got it wrong, and it was just awkward because that was about the 5th time I answered his question wrong/made it clear I wasn't paying attention. Seriously not on the ball at all.
My AP Comp Sci teacher probably thinks I don't know shit. During class the other day I had my phone in my pocket, but when I sit, the power button and volume buttons get hit randomly, so I accidentally booted the phone into safe mode. In order to avoid that, I just took it out of my pocket and put it on the table face down. In the middle of class, he walks over and he's like I don't want to see this out during class (not in a mean way). I just said sorry and dropped it in my backpack. After class, I'm always the slowest person to leave the room because I am really slow at packing up. As I'm packing up and everyone is gone, he asks me how I'm doing. I say I'm fine. He then asks me if I'm having any trouble. I say no. He looks at me with this unconvinced face and's all like, "are you sure?" I say yes. He says okay in, again, an unconvinced voice. We exchange the usual words of goodbye, and I leave. I guess it could just be regular teacher-making-sure-you-aren't-failing. On the other hand, he could think I'm a delinquent.
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23 August 2015
A few minutes ago I checked the time on my computer and it said 10:37 AM. That's a problem. It was most definitely not 10:37 because I woke up at 10:30, so unless I was able to use the bathroom, watch a 6 minute biology video, check what homework I have, think about a JAVA recursion problem, and eat a rice ball within 7 minutes then damn; I must be sonic or some shit.
But really, I was actually sort of confused because the computer is almost never wrong about the time. It's still not fixed so hopefully it does that like it should.
By the way, the title is a stupid reference to the Youkai Watch opening(?) song that my Japanese teacher made us listen to.
A few minutes ago I checked the time on my computer and it said 10:37 AM. That's a problem. It was most definitely not 10:37 because I woke up at 10:30, so unless I was able to use the bathroom, watch a 6 minute biology video, check what homework I have, think about a JAVA recursion problem, and eat a rice ball within 7 minutes then damn; I must be sonic or some shit.
But really, I was actually sort of confused because the computer is almost never wrong about the time. It's still not fixed so hopefully it does that like it should.
By the way, the title is a stupid reference to the Youkai Watch opening(?) song that my Japanese teacher made us listen to.
- 11:25 AM
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22 August 2015
I'm sitting in my ACT class and I'm really bored. I just called my mom and lied that the class ends at 2 today (as opposed to 5:30!). Keep in mind I've been to this class like the whole of summer, and, at this point, I really think enough is enough. 9 hours of class is really pushing it.
On a side note, I'm really scared that after all this I'll still not score what I want on the real test (September 12th). I'm scoring pretty well now, but a lot of the times the real points that matter are based on how lucky you happen to be that day.
I know I could always retake it, but it's like why??? Also the test is really damn expensive to take.
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20 August 2015
And I'm already stressed out about stuff. I don't even know. I just don't ever feel like doing anything. I open my biology book and I'm like ugh. I open APUSH and I'm even more like ugh. Math is going over my head, and I just don't want to move. And my mom keeps getting mad about stupid shit on the side it's like I don't need your shit. I feel so uncomfortable right now. There's an APUSH reading quiz tomorrow on the first 3 chapters and I haven't even started yet. I'm so screwed with everything.
And I'm already stressed out about stuff. I don't even know. I just don't ever feel like doing anything. I open my biology book and I'm like ugh. I open APUSH and I'm even more like ugh. Math is going over my head, and I just don't want to move. And my mom keeps getting mad about stupid shit on the side it's like I don't need your shit. I feel so uncomfortable right now. There's an APUSH reading quiz tomorrow on the first 3 chapters and I haven't even started yet. I'm so screwed with everything.
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18 August 2015
I've been thinking about my previous post, and I really just want to let it all go. I keep wondering why I care so much about these things. I take the close friends I have too seriously I guess, and maybe I'm the only one that will end up caring. It sucks because every so often I think about that particular friendship, and it's only that friendship that makes me feel this way. It's just that I had spent so much of my time on this person, and suddenly it's gone. It's gotten to the point where I now think she probably doesn't even think about me/want to talk to me anymore, so I'm afraid of contacting her for fear of the reply I will receive (or maybe even not receive). Ugh. As cheesy as it sounds, my heart actually hurts.
I have another friend from around the same time, Valerie, but she moved to LA. It's weird because I actually talked to her less, but now I'm much more comfortable just randomly saying hi to her and asking her how she's doing.
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18 August 2015
So I had a really close friend from elementary school, Maggie, but around the end of 7th grade we just stopped contacting each other, and I don't really know why. It's weird because I kind of want to talk to her again, but I no longer know what I would say. Every time I see her doing things I feel sad because it reminds me of all the fun we used to have together, and I wonder how all of that was just for nothing in the end. I wonder if she ever still thinks about the time we had together or if I'm just the one that cares too much.
So I had a really close friend from elementary school, Maggie, but around the end of 7th grade we just stopped contacting each other, and I don't really know why. It's weird because I kind of want to talk to her again, but I no longer know what I would say. Every time I see her doing things I feel sad because it reminds me of all the fun we used to have together, and I wonder how all of that was just for nothing in the end. I wonder if she ever still thinks about the time we had together or if I'm just the one that cares too much.
I hate that feeling of not having closure. How does one go from voice chatting on Skype in comfortable silence for 13 hours straight to never speaking again. I don't get it, and that disturbs me.
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16 August 2015
So this dream was really strange. I guess it was more of a nightmare. I feel like I had part of this dream before, but I couldn't remember it when it happened previously. Basically I was on a field trip to some fast food restaurant, and the only person I remember being there was my friend since kindergarten, Jyothi.
So this dream was really strange. I guess it was more of a nightmare. I feel like I had part of this dream before, but I couldn't remember it when it happened previously. Basically I was on a field trip to some fast food restaurant, and the only person I remember being there was my friend since kindergarten, Jyothi.
I'm standing in line to order food, but I seem to only remember getting drinks. It's free slushie day, and everyone is getting blue (or was it pink) slushies. Jyothi orders before me, and I watch carefully to see what size she gets. I distinctly hear her say large, and I even see her carry away a rather large cup (though you know how America tends to be with portion sizes, especially with fast food drinks), so I order a large as well. Peculiarly, what I get is much larger than what Jyothi got. I feel kind of embarrassed, but it's no matter. I walk away from the counter, and in that moment I think, 'wow, how do those cashiers and workers move so fast at this restaurant; it's unreal.' In hindsight, of course it was unreal: it was a dream.
As I walk towards Jyothi, I ask her if she wants my slushie because she is oddly already almost done with her's; she says yes, so I dump my slushie into her cup (I feel like this particular phrasing has some strange implications). Heading back to refill my drink with either tea, water, or lemonade—I can no longer remember—I start thinking about something, but a blank happens.
[This was written in past tense at first, but then I started slipping my tenses around in places so I had to just change everything to present tense. It sounds kind of weird.
Okay, after I changed everything, I read that there is a literary mode called the Stream of Conscientiousness, which is basically interior monologue and the way I was writing before, so the tense and grammar can technically be garbled. I'll probably just mix it up from now on because who cares.]
Suddenly I'm standing in a secondary line past the cashier to buy some snacks. There was a snack stand made of metal that held various foodstuffs like corn nuts and chips. I reach out to grab something when, all of a sudden, Jyothi tells me something, but I could not hear what she had said. A blank.
Everything is dark now, but not completely dark. There's that horror movie darkness in which objects seem to be slightly illuminated by something: probably the moon. I'm outside, but I see remnants of the restaurant around me. The floor is wet and covered in some unknown substance, and the only thing left intact is the snack stand from before; except now, the metal is rusted, and the snacks look strangely ominous with the moon shining a dim light on their colorful, kid-friendly packages. There's an incline in front of me with an upside-down 'U' shaped pipe on the way to the top. I don't know why, but I climb up the hill; it's then that I realize that there is something flowing from where the pipe is. It's slippery, and I feel a sudden chill down my spine. I'm afraid of falling. I think the reason I didn't want to slip was that I didn't want to get covered in whatever was on the floor. Was it rotting entrails? Blood? I can't remember, I just know I was afraid of something.
A blank happens as I reach the pipe, and I abruptly appear across the street from my house. Jyothi is standing there. She tells me something, but again, I could not hear what she had said.
She probably told me to go back for some reason because I'm suddenly back at the pipe, and the disgusting substance is still leaking from it. I remember feeling a sense of reluctance, suggesting that I went back willingly for what she had asked. Diffident, I try to make my way down the slope without slipping. When I finally reach the snack stand, I reach out to grab a snack—which is likely what Jyothi had asked for—but I wake up. I'm sweating when I wake up, probably because my heart was beating posthaste during the dream. Despite this, I always end up wanting to know how things would have ended.
Also, why Jyothi?
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14 August 2015
So there is this woman at the ACT boot camp I'm going to, and she keeps giving me the side eye. It's really weird cause I'm pretty damn sure I didn't do shit. I walk in from lunch, side eye. I go get water, side eye. Just what is the deal man. I've interacted with you like one time, and you're an employee at the place, what could I have done to you short of asking you where the damn bathroom is, and I haven't even done that either!
So there is this woman at the ACT boot camp I'm going to, and she keeps giving me the side eye. It's really weird cause I'm pretty damn sure I didn't do shit. I walk in from lunch, side eye. I go get water, side eye. Just what is the deal man. I've interacted with you like one time, and you're an employee at the place, what could I have done to you short of asking you where the damn bathroom is, and I haven't even done that either!
Also, not to sound strange (but honestly, who are we kidding here), but she acts hella thirsty towards the boss of this place. Like I can actually taste it in the air.
Whatever. School is starting, and I don't have time for this bullshit.
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11 August 2015
So back in June I went to my first hackathon and got second place for the category my group entered (social hack). I was kind of miffed that I got second because obviously I would have preferred getting the first place prizes, but mostly it was because I hate that feeling of being so close yet so far (it's a matter of pride). There was an award reception around a month/a month an a half later, but I didn't go because the winning and runner-up groups had to do another speech explaining their app, and I just was not mentally prepared for that (I have stage freight like many people). I guess I should have gone, but another girl in my group couldn't go either so I don't know; we only had 3 people on our team. Anyway, at first only first place winners received prizes while runner-ups only get a silver trophy (made of plastic mind you). Not to mention, they only give one trophy so only one group member can keep it. That doesn't really matter to me as much though.
Later on, the organizer mentions that the library (the hackathon was held at the library overnight) was kind enough to also provide 25 dollar amazon gift cards to the runner-ups. Naturally, I emailed him and asked when I could pick up the stuff. Apparently, one of the girls in my group had already picked the stuff up, but it's weird because she never emailed us about it. I don't know if she was hoping to just get away with keeping everything, if she just forgot, or if she was planning on doing it later. The thing is, according to the organizer (Matthew) she had picked up the stuff a week from when he replied to me. Meaning she had the stuff for around a week. The reason I'm kind of annoyed is because she (Anika) did the least work in the group. I could see that she was getting kind of annoyed because the other girl in the group (Johanna) is very controlling and, I guess some might say, bossy. She would constantly berate Anika for "not knowing how to do anything right". However, at the same time, Johanna did the most work and was the most experienced with app creation. I was in charge of the design: I created the logo and icon for the app. So in terms of how much work I did, I would say I did not do much of the actual coding (but then again we used app inventor so there wasn't much coding involved anyway). At least I did something though. I honestly believe that if I hadn't made the banner and icon, regardless of how good or bad it was, we wouldn't have gotten second (Man I sound really narcissistic here, but it's like if you create a product, put it in a white—or some other color for that matter—box, put it on the shelves, and expect people to buy it. Honestly, it's not like you own some famous brand. I guess people might just think your refusal to use labels or pictures is "edgy" and "new", but anyway, I digress). I can't really blame Anika either because I can see how it would be hard for her to do things if she would always just get yelled at for trying. I could tell she wasn't really having much fun. We were just not a very cohesive group.
What I think is shady is that after I asked who picked up the stuff, Anika replied and said that she would be at the library from 11-3 and for me to let her know if I could go meet her. I know she didn't mean today from 11-3 because it was already past 3 when she replied, meaning that she most likely meant tomorrow or sometime soon. Then later I remembered that all she had to was scratch off the metallic-looking stuff from the back of the cards and send us the codes for us to redeem. After I tell her to do this, a good while goes by when she replies that she is traveling this week and will send us the codes when she gets home. How can she be traveling and at the library from 11-3 at the same time? It's probably nothing, but I just thought it was kind of weird.
Here are some screenshots of the app we made.
So back in June I went to my first hackathon and got second place for the category my group entered (social hack). I was kind of miffed that I got second because obviously I would have preferred getting the first place prizes, but mostly it was because I hate that feeling of being so close yet so far (it's a matter of pride). There was an award reception around a month/a month an a half later, but I didn't go because the winning and runner-up groups had to do another speech explaining their app, and I just was not mentally prepared for that (I have stage freight like many people). I guess I should have gone, but another girl in my group couldn't go either so I don't know; we only had 3 people on our team. Anyway, at first only first place winners received prizes while runner-ups only get a silver trophy (made of plastic mind you). Not to mention, they only give one trophy so only one group member can keep it. That doesn't really matter to me as much though.
Later on, the organizer mentions that the library (the hackathon was held at the library overnight) was kind enough to also provide 25 dollar amazon gift cards to the runner-ups. Naturally, I emailed him and asked when I could pick up the stuff. Apparently, one of the girls in my group had already picked the stuff up, but it's weird because she never emailed us about it. I don't know if she was hoping to just get away with keeping everything, if she just forgot, or if she was planning on doing it later. The thing is, according to the organizer (Matthew) she had picked up the stuff a week from when he replied to me. Meaning she had the stuff for around a week. The reason I'm kind of annoyed is because she (Anika) did the least work in the group. I could see that she was getting kind of annoyed because the other girl in the group (Johanna) is very controlling and, I guess some might say, bossy. She would constantly berate Anika for "not knowing how to do anything right". However, at the same time, Johanna did the most work and was the most experienced with app creation. I was in charge of the design: I created the logo and icon for the app. So in terms of how much work I did, I would say I did not do much of the actual coding (but then again we used app inventor so there wasn't much coding involved anyway). At least I did something though. I honestly believe that if I hadn't made the banner and icon, regardless of how good or bad it was, we wouldn't have gotten second (Man I sound really narcissistic here, but it's like if you create a product, put it in a white—or some other color for that matter—box, put it on the shelves, and expect people to buy it. Honestly, it's not like you own some famous brand. I guess people might just think your refusal to use labels or pictures is "edgy" and "new", but anyway, I digress). I can't really blame Anika either because I can see how it would be hard for her to do things if she would always just get yelled at for trying. I could tell she wasn't really having much fun. We were just not a very cohesive group.
What I think is shady is that after I asked who picked up the stuff, Anika replied and said that she would be at the library from 11-3 and for me to let her know if I could go meet her. I know she didn't mean today from 11-3 because it was already past 3 when she replied, meaning that she most likely meant tomorrow or sometime soon. Then later I remembered that all she had to was scratch off the metallic-looking stuff from the back of the cards and send us the codes for us to redeem. After I tell her to do this, a good while goes by when she replies that she is traveling this week and will send us the codes when she gets home. How can she be traveling and at the library from 11-3 at the same time? It's probably nothing, but I just thought it was kind of weird.
Here are some screenshots of the app we made.
App Icon |
App Banner (Light) |
App Banner (Dark) |
- 9:35 PM
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11 August 2015
This post is mostly for testing out the featured tag banner of my blog.
It will also show my fabulous dog, Kyle.
This post is mostly for testing out the featured tag banner of my blog.
It will also show my fabulous dog, Kyle.
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11 August 2015
Oh my god I can't seem to center align the continue reading button but keep the actual text in the post (after clicking the continue button, not the preview text) left aligned. Long posts that are center aligned are no bueno.
Oh my god I can't seem to center align the continue reading button but keep the actual text in the post (after clicking the continue button, not the preview text) left aligned. Long posts that are center aligned are no bueno.
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11 August 2015
As you can see (and by you I mean basically nobody 'cause almost nobody even knows this blog), I changed my blog template and hella messed around with the HTML shit to make things look right. Also had to search a bunch places for different widgets/badges to make the blog look like how it's supposed to. Uploaded a bunch of photos to Flickr as well just so stuff would actually show up. Thinking of also uploading pictures to Instagram (that's the picture you see of my dog; yes, I only have one picture uploaded on my Instagram which is why it looks so shitty right now), but that's more annoying because other people will actually get flooded with my uploads. I was conflicted on what Facebook page to put as the "Like us" thing cause I can't put my own since it has to actually be a likable page (like a company/community page for example). I put my youth impact page at first but my friend (who created it) and I basically abandoned it, so I just ended putting my YMCA Y&G page up for now. I might change it some other day.
As you can see (and by you I mean basically nobody 'cause almost nobody even knows this blog), I changed my blog template and hella messed around with the HTML shit to make things look right. Also had to search a bunch places for different widgets/badges to make the blog look like how it's supposed to. Uploaded a bunch of photos to Flickr as well just so stuff would actually show up. Thinking of also uploading pictures to Instagram (that's the picture you see of my dog; yes, I only have one picture uploaded on my Instagram which is why it looks so shitty right now), but that's more annoying because other people will actually get flooded with my uploads. I was conflicted on what Facebook page to put as the "Like us" thing cause I can't put my own since it has to actually be a likable page (like a company/community page for example). I put my youth impact page at first but my friend (who created it) and I basically abandoned it, so I just ended putting my YMCA Y&G page up for now. I might change it some other day.
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10 August 2015
I hate it when it happens. Just now I wanted to type out a dream I had last night, but now I can't remember it. The thing is, I always wake up and think, 'Wow, that was such a great dream, I should write it down." But then I think that I'll just do it later 'cause I'm too lazy to do it immediately. Then I forget. Amazing.
I hate it when it happens. Just now I wanted to type out a dream I had last night, but now I can't remember it. The thing is, I always wake up and think, 'Wow, that was such a great dream, I should write it down." But then I think that I'll just do it later 'cause I'm too lazy to do it immediately. Then I forget. Amazing.
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[This happened a long damn time ago; I mentioned the profile picture thing in the "Stuff I've Been Thinking About" post and decided that I might as well post my opinion on it here since I was too lazy to type it all there. Blue highlight is me in the first two. In the third one it's mostly me talking so it shouldn't matter that much. I'll highlight it now to make it clearer. By the way, sorry if any of you end up seeing this and didn't want me to post it, but I doubt it. I should probably ask but honestly though.]
holy shit it turns out that the you lie in april anime turned out to be pretty popular
man im like a mind reader
freaking gekkan shoujo and now this
but i dont really want to watch it lol
Aditi Jain
wait which one?
the shigatsu wa kimi no uso thing
the music one
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ik man I went through this phase where every manga that I read turned really popular
right omg
and its so stupid cause its so hard to convince people to watch it
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like suki itte ll na yo, ao haru ride, and the list goes on??
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right LOL
omg but i watched the 5 min baking episodes
i was crying okay
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IKR
so many sparkles
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OMG
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LOLLLL
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THE PROFESSORS WERE SO FUNNY I WAS DYING
like please just chill
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LOL IKR
its so damn weird. i still cant believe that i freaking listened to him say his damn king louis XVI beheading speech like last friday or something
and now its like i will never see him again. like it weird because im not even his friend. i didnt even care about him but now its like i still dont care about him. yet i do care but its not even really about him
do you understand
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yes
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it's so weird
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like
its just the fact that hes gone and ill never even see him again. its basically still about me and not about him
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i didn't even know him but still the depth of the fact he "died" is so wierd
ikr
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like it feels really empty like there is this space that needs to be filled but it's not there
i mean i spoke to this person and now i just cant
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ik
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i keep on imagining how it is like this person with a goddamn future
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just is gone
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like
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poof
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he probably took the PSAT last week and he was probably taking piano classes and stuff
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like man
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it's all gonw
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*gone
not even gonna kid myself i know i dont really care about him personally right. but i still acknowledge that he like had a future right. and he was doing all this stuff
and what was it for
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it's really shocking
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eactly
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*exactly
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I feel bad for him, no necessarily his value in my life
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*not
it kinda cements that like we really arent living for anything and the only reason we are even doing anything is to enjoy stuff. but its just WEIRD like WHY
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ikr
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he's gone
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like dead
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not sick and just staying home
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he didn't transfer schools
ikr literally even if you wanted to see huim
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he's fucking dead
you cant
there is no money you can pay
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exactly
his parents though
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like it's so surreal
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i know right I can't even imagine what they are going through
literally his parents lived their entire lives having him there
and now just not
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and now they can't even see him
sent off to school and never come back
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it;s not like he went off to college or anything
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heck he didn't even make it to college
just a regular school day
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that's so damn depressing
like you go to school every day
and just suddenly
you dont even think about it
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i know right
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he's not coming home
you know in those animes where the child always says like have a safe trip to their parents when they leave for work
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AND THEY DONT COME BACK
and then the one day they dont say it their parents die
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LIKE THAT NEVER HIT ME HARD
so its like why didnt i say it
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BUT THIS JUST HITS HOME SO HARD
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i didn't even know the guy like imagine if his parents didn't even get to see him that morning like he left by himself, or they fought about something stupid the day before
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it's so surreal man
its weird because even before this. every time i exit the car im always like thinking i should say oh drive safe. but its weird so i never say it. and im just thinking as i walk to school like omg. what if that was literally the last time i see my dad
like what if i said it and it wouldnt have happened
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i know like it's just one morning
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like wake up, dress up, and just like any other morning but what if you're just gone
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you never knoe
ikr
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*know
i could just die right now
and like stop replying to you
and you would never know
did i go take a shower?
did my computer shut down
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i know that's so damn scary
ughhh life is so weird
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like what if this is the last shit I say to you that's so damn scary
ikr
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I know it's so delicate
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like it was gone in a millisecond
i mean we think about this philosophical shit all the time. but now that somethings actually happened near us
its like mann
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i swear ugh
like the girl i was talking about lillian
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? who
the one who yesterday was like what if its ethan
cause we knew he has 1st free
Aditi Jain
oh yeah
and bikes to school
but we didnt actually think it was him
and she was like
omg because
the last time i met him
he was mad at me for taking the topic he wanted for the history project
Aditi Jain
wow
actually no i think she may have been mad at him for taking the topic
idk
either way
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that's so weird
that was like the last time
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like thats so damn weird
but we didnt think it would actually be him
like a bunch of people bike to school right
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yeah
and you always assume "oh its probably not me"
or "i probably dont know them"
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I know because it feels like it couldnt be him like he can't die I KNOW him
IKR man its just weird 100%
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exactly it always happens to someone else and we don't realize it happens to everyone
Aditi Jain
it's so weird
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can't even deal with that
ikr
we have this weird mindset like for example im thinking
oh theres no way ill get ebola
theres no way rasika will get ebola
all this shit
i mean it is improbable but its not impossible right
Aditi Jain
right but there are real people out there getting ebola
but i feel like death is even more likely for us than ebola
i could trip going down the stairs. im actually surprised i havent fallen down the stairs yet after all the times ive gone down them
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i know
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like although we are always like
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"just chill you aren't going to fall off the stairs"
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like I can tho???
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I can die??
RIGHT? i mean holy shit
Aditi Jain
I am a human being that can DIE that's so weird
i literally just move my hand an inch and i can kill like 10 people with a domino effect down the stairs
Aditi Jain
i swear it sounds stpid but what the fuck???? People can die??? It's like it's just hitting us
im cutting fruit and your washing the dishes boom stab in the throat
like what
its not even just hitting us. we know. its just that we forget so easily
Aditi Jain
dude so you know there is this kpop star that suffers from depression because someone she was playing dies during a soccer game she was in,and at first I thought that was a ridiculous reason to have depression like she barely knew that girl, but I kind of understand now
like we have this conversation and tomorrow we probably wont even care that much anymore
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this can hit hard
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but you are right we will probably just forget tomorrow
because its so hard to imagine yourself in the position
its like well i didnt die
and we know we COULD die
but we are so used to just living
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i know
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we are so young it doesn't even occur to us that we could die at any moment, people don't only die of old age
ikr people dont only die of disease cancer old age
you could literally die at any time
we are so weak
so we build all this stuff and make all these rules
just so we can live
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but it doesn't even matter??? People never obey the rules bc they are like "oh I can;t die from not wear a seat belt it won't happen to ME, only to someone else"
exactly man
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but like yess?? you can die?? what that is so weird
like i do it so often just lol no seatbelt whatever
i just wont wear it this one time
its not like ill die. i mean its just once
Aditi Jain
sorry I'm falling sick I'm making so many mistakes while typing
really i cant tell lol
youre sick?
with the cold?
Aditi Jain
yeah I'm falling sick again
are you gonna come to school tomorrow
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probably, I mig skip like spanish and come for math and SS
Aditi Jain
*might
oh okay
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man I'm so weirded out
idk man. i asked shuge once like would you care if someone random died
like at your school or something
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mhmm
and she said yes of course
and thats fine
but im thinking like would i care
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same that's what I would have thought too I never really thought I would care that much
i mean i dont think i would though. i mean its sad. and i feel bad for all the people that care about him. but is that really caring about the one who died
because if i died
i wouldnt be sad about it right
because id be dead
but the people who cared about me would be the ones who were sad
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yeah
idk. i cant really say i dont care that he died. but im not sure if im legitly sad that he did.
lol that sounds really shitty but do you see what im getting at
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maybe it's just the reality of it that's saddening
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yeah
yeah probably
woah i see the wave of cover photos
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yeah the tino cares
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man like I don't get that shit
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i feel like people are just doing that for likes
i dont know what to think of it
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and personally I don't find that type of mourning very helpful
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maybe it's just me
because i know there are people who do it because they do care. but i know some people do it to follow the crowd. like less of i do care and more of i know i SHOULD care
you know. like when someone dies you wouldnt say oh lol that sucks i really give 0 shits
Aditi Jain
exactly
so i think the cover/profiles are kind of like half authentic?? for most people
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right but the problem is that type of "mourning" isn't my style, I prefer to think it out and talk about it
yeah
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I personally don't feel like it's a good Idea
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something like this is very personal, not something that needs to be broadcasted so people can see "oh I give a shit"
it kinda feels like the releasing the guilt off yourself
Aditi Jain
yeah
like im not a douchebag i care that someone died
but i suppose the common thought would be that you should care when someone dies regardless so why do you find the need to broadcast that you do
Aditi Jain
exactly but it's just something people are doing to show YEAH YEAH I CARE!! ME ME ME HERE!! I CARE!!
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that's how I see it
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i guess so
yeah thats what im saying
like why do you have the need to show everyone that you care
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you can see it both ways I guess it depends on how you feel about the problem
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exactly it should be normal that you care
yeah and then its weird for me because like as i said earlier
i think it would be kinda fake for me to say i care
because i didnt even know him
Aditi Jain
exactly
its like i dont care about you until youre dead
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I think that what I'm doing now is exactly how I should be dealing with this, regardless of whether I look "shallow"
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yeah
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it's like that Rajvi thing
like you said i feel like its more of i care about the general loss of your opportunities and those who truly care for you but i cant say i care about you personally
so in that way i guess it makes sense. but there are just many sides
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exactly that is the truth
the word "care" is just very broad
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yes
man why cant our essays be one these topics
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dude there is this one guy who just broadcasted what we just said
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I know right LOL this is the deep stuff
for real man
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and then there are people like this:
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...
HAHA
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but cmon is this really a joking matter...............
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omg man the life people are living though
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this is what minho said
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yeah i know right
basically
i wonder if i would be happy if someone i hated died
like forget just being sad or neutral or whatever
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i know
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I wonder how that would feel
like i would think itd be like YAYYY
but its like
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like how do murderers feel?
wait would it really
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do they feel good? they just took a alife?
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it's so weird
im not sure about people who just kill with no motive
but maybe people who kill for revenge
like in their minds
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maybe yeah
that person didnt deserve to live right
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like how we feel now
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they don't truly care
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although it's that feeling that they should care
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maybe just the weight of the death carries on
yeah
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but not actual "care" for the person
hey what is the exact reason for the idea that murder with motive is wrong
i mean assuming that the person killed was an actual douchebag that just like ruined the killers life or something
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yeah
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well
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i don't know
i suppose its like ill kill this person because i dont care what happens to myself anymore since he already took everything away from me
Aditi Jain
right
so like if im going down im taking you with me kind of thing
Aditi Jain
yeah exactly
kind of like when we said what if we only had a day to live
and we could literally just go and kill everyone we hated
and it wouldnt even matter. because assuming we only give a shit about ourselves, the only thing that lives on is the memories of the people still alive
so like maybe my parents would hate me after my death. and the parents of those we killed would hate us. but why does that matter if we are already dead
Aditi Jain
there is this really interesting quote “In the end, people will only shed tears for themselves... even if it seems like they're crying for someone else, people only cry because they imagine the pain that someone else is feeling”
omg exactly
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I have been thinking about this all day
like its always like omg what if that happened to me
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right exactly
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I actually read this in a manga yesterday LOL but it's so true
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like woah what the hell
thats how humans feel empathy right. like relation to self
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mhmm
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it's so true to the situation I was thinking about it the whole day
i think i think in this way because i believe in like the hobbesian view on human nature lol
Aditi Jain
yeah
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haha
which is why i think its weird to do the profile thing
Aditi Jain
exactly
because i know that im selfish. but i guess i cant really know for sure if all people are selfish
Aditi Jain
mhmm
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dude we could totally write an essay about this we even have a quote
ikr omg
so much analysis
Aditi Jain
LOL ikr
another example is during lunch
you werent here
but dhanya just said like offhandedly oh i wish we got the day off because of this
and i was thinking like man
we truly do end up only giving a shit about ourselves
Aditi Jain
exactly
someone dies and its like lol i hope we get the day off
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it's so weird
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it's so selfish but it's........... like normal?
like we arent consciously disregarding him
its more like why cant i be selfish
because on the base level, literally this persons death doesnt affect me at all
Aditi Jain
right
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i g2g man
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cyu tmr
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what's your opinion on the profile/cover photo changing thing. because me and aditi were having a hella intense chat about it
Once a matador thing is hella stupid
Like "even if you're dead u can't escape"
No point
aditi thinks its complete bullshit and im siding mostly with aditi
Why doesn't it just say rest in peace or something
exactly like first of all do you really care though
Exactly like what are the chances you knew this guy
And also like
If his family is on FB
It's contstantly reminding them of his death
did you even know this person. i feel like people dont really even care about him personally. its just like "sad" for his lost opportunities and all the people that truly care about him
but its like what
People say that about everything
isnt it still about yourself though
Like the football players that raped the irks
Girls
Ooh their foptball career lost potential
I do feel bad for the family tho
And the guy that hit him has to live with knowing he killed a teenager
Like how do you live with that
yeah and the thing is why do people find the need to broadcast to the world that they "care". shouldnt it be a given that you feel bad.
exactly i hear people going like ohh it was obviously a hit and run like how do not notice
Exactly it's kind of like trying to prove you're a caring person
About making yourself look better
i mean maybe it was a hit and run. but what if it wasnt. like do you realize that this person is still alive and what about his life
Did they even read the article he had no idea he hit someone
Like witnesses followed him so he stopped like why are people following me
people are mostly saying oh how do you not notice you hit someone isnt there an impact
man it was a truck
It was a giant ass truck and a tiny biker
exactly
It's all bullshit so i just hope his family is coping and the truck guy is mentally stable
basically
ugh who even thinks those profiles are a good idea
Also yours are ugly as fuck ngl
aditi is literally 100% done like wtf is this bullshit this is not how i think mourning happens
They are having a vigil though
yeah i know
Which sounds badass
Idk what you do at a vigil
candle lighting?
Oh really
Boring
im not sure
i prob wont go though
honestly people die all the time
and it wasnt a painful death or anything
because it feels weird. i mean he was in my class but like on the base level i dont care because it doesnt affect me. many of these people will probably just forget
Like that girl at Saratoga everyone totally forgot
After someone dies everyone is their best friend
i mean that sounds hella shitty but i think it would be stupid to say i care if i dont really. as you said i feel bad for his parents but its not really feeling bad for the person himself
especially since this person was really quiet. and so today in history we changed seats and the girl next to me was like: i cant even remember how he looks like. and the only reason i remember is because i was in my table group
I guess I feel the same way and its not like im going to stop biking or something
it kind of feels like i only care about you once youre dead
Exactly
Like using death for attention= no is like the summary here
yeah
its really weird that parents are going like omg i will never let you bike again. i meanwhat???? car crashes happen everyday so why are you still driving
literally this guys mom disassembled his bike and threw it away
chill
W h a t
Has she read car crash statistics
And the people that drive like "you could be kidnapped"
Like 200x more likely to die in a car crash than be kidnapped
ikr and what is with this "you could"
well yeah i could also die right now
i could fall off the couch being lazy and hit my head on the edge of a table
Exactly why live in fear like
There is no point
yeah
#tinocares
i see
tinos wearing purple and gold tmr
btw whats the purpose
of the mv care profie picture
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i dont really see the point of any of them
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its like even if you do it
you're not really changing anything
so idk
Shuge
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why is there such a need to broadcast that you care
20 mins
are you actually taking action to commemorate him
like most people don't even know him
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shouldnt it kind of be a given
yeah and olivia made the point like what if his parents are on facebook
like you are constantly reminding them
as if they dont already know
and i feel its kind of undermining what those who truly care feel
because many of these people dont even know him and didnt even care about him personally right
so its like yo i only care once youre already dead
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#yoco (you only care once)
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i mean of course its like you feel bad for his parents and i even feel bad for the truck driver
but i dont understand how people can whole heartedly say they care
when im pretty sure they dont
okay care is hard to define
i mean if you hate someone you techincally care about them
its just that care usually has a positive connotation
so i suppose i do care that he died, but i cant say im really sad about it. because to be honest im just going to continue life and many of these people are just going to mainly forget it soon
idk if you ended up reading the chat
but there was an example i made
like today at lunch dhanya said that oh i was wishing we had the day off because of this
and i was just like damn we really do end up ultimately caring about ourselves
but its not like im berating her for it
because i think im like that to. maybe not everyone is and im being unfair by saying this
but its like why should i be super depressed and it. he is dead and there is nothing we can do about it. in short it really sucks.
now im also not saying that everyone who changed their profile and stuff are horrible people
like im sure many people just followed the wave without ill will
but i just done really agree with it and i suppose many people didnt really think about the situation as much
isnt it weird
people die all the time
but since he happens to go to our school or goes to a school near us
even if youve never even seen his face and he might as well have been any other kid who died 20 states away
suddenly everyone "cares"
its not wrong to care but i feel like if i truly cared for someone who died
and i saw all of this
i would feel like why are you doing this. you didnt even know him like i did. you were in the same class as him and cant even remember his face so dont try broadcasting to everyone that you "care" because if you call that caring then i must be god
im not saying its wrong to mourn a fellow students death, i just dont think people should just thoughtlessly change their profile picture
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I see
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okay im done ranting about all this
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